Society in general dictates how the majority of people think and act. And that leads most people to have an ordinary life.
But for those of us who are not content with an ordinary life and want to live an extraordinary life, it is not so easy.
Let’s face it, it is not that difficult for most people to have an OK life. And that is why it serves the majority.
Sure there are those who are worse off, and for the average person, it does involve a certain amount of struggle.
So for those of us who are not content with ordinary, not happy with feeling unfulfilled and just going through the motions, those of us who want to truly live our best life, how do we get to create that?
As we are surrounded by media, society, friends, family, so much lack, we must move away from these bad influences and towards awesomeness.
Reducing our exposure to the ‘bad’ and increasing our exposure to the ‘good’ will have a major effect on our behaviours and our belief system.
By surrounding yourself with high-achievers, people who are successful, people who have an abundance mindset, people who are at the level that you want to reach, will start to move your mindset and your behaviours towards that which you are looking for.
You will slowly but surely get dragged up to their level of success and achievement.
When you are within a group of people, always try to be towards the lower end so that you have people to look up to and this will give you the maximum amount of potential to grow.
Being the best in your circle may make you feel special and perhaps important but you have no room for growth.
Unless, of course, you are within that group to assist them to grow and by giving back you will be growing yourself in other ways.
As you grow, you can change your circle of influence to be more in line with your next step, your next step towards reaching the heights you are aiming for.
This is one of the reasons why I love being part of the SFM. A fantastic group of like-minded entrepreneurs who are there for their growth and success, and the growth and success of everyone around them.
And that attitude is present for everyone in the movement including the leaders, the coaches, the mentors and right to the co-founders at the very top.
On a final note. I have mentioned before about my bedtime routine with my young girls where we cover gratitude and inner belief.
We have now added another item. They do not want to live an ordinary life, they want to live an extraordinary life.
And with that comes continual inner-work and personal growth as the odds are stacked against us all.
But don’t be disheartened, it is certainly very achievable ๐
Dream big and take action ๐
Scott ๐

Scott Lane – Founder BuildMyLifestyle
Digital Entrepreneur and Lifestyle Coach
SFM Elite+ / DEA Mastermind Experience Member

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