Do you realise that you are surrounded by your BS? Have you ever thought about it?
Your BS, your belief system, is literally what you’re surrounded by.
It’s hard to really come to terms with that fact because, if you’re anything like me, you’re thinking;
“Well, I didn’t really want this life. I wanted to be successful. I wanted to be happy. I wanted to have all the great things in life, instead of having all this bad stuff happening to me. I just don’t know why.”
Well, the hard truth is that it all comes down to us.
It’s how our belief system is, what our subconscious thinks we are worthy of, and how we perceive ourselves.
Of course, all these beliefs in our subconscious all come from our early days, or at least most of them do.
Most of them come from the first few years of your life because when you’re so young, you have to be very impressionable. You have to learn from your parents and society and learn from school because you have to fit in.
Obviously, you can’t expect to know everything, especially when you’re only a few years old. You have to absorb all you can from what’s around you and take that on as your belief system.
Unfortunately, a lot of that contains so much negativity. From school, certainly. You know what kids are like by teasing you at school.
Our parents are brought up by their parents, who are brought up by their parents, and they tend to have bad things as well in their belief system. It all trickles down to you.
I’m sure you heard sayings like “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” and, “Well, we can’t afford that.” Or, “Don’t do that because you’ll get in trouble.” All these negative things they keep teaching us.
I’ve even found myself teaching the same thing to my kids. Not on purpose, but because it is the automatic thing to do. It’s our belief system. It’s what comes out without even thinking.
We’re surrounded by our belief system, and you have to understand that and believe that to make a change.
You must not take on the pity mindset. You must not have the victim mentality where you might say that it’s somebody else’s fault or say that it happened because of so and so.
Do not make excuses.
Once you accept that it’s your belief system that’s bringing the situation into your life, you can then make a change.
You can then say, “Okay, I don’t want that anymore. I’m going to change it.” And you can then change your belief system.
Of course, that is not easy, because this goes against what we believe, right? Not only do we believe it, but many things throughout our life so far have happened and reinforced it.
For instance, if you’ve got a belief that people don’t like you, every time somebody says something to you or doesn’t react the way you expect them to, you think, “Yeah, it’s because they don’t like me.”
When in reality, it could be that they’re having a bad day, or they’ve got something else on their mind, or they’ve got some other things to rush off to.
It’s very easy to reinforce these negative beliefs which aren’t serving us along our life’s journey, even if they’re not true.
We have to change it. But how do we change our beliefs?
We have to simply replace them with new beliefs. We have to reprogram our subconscious.
This is obviously more difficult as you get older, but certainly, it’s doable. It will make a huge change in your life as you start to take on positive beliefs.
You’ll believe that life is good, you are here to be happy and you certainly have the capabilities of being successful, and then you can start making it happen.
You can do this by simply repeating affirmations which allow you to reprogram your subconscious.
Just repeat affirmations that are really true to you and what you want to become.
The best times to do this are either when you first wake up, or just before you go to sleep when you’re relaxed, or when you’re meditating and you’re in a very relaxed state.
When you’re in this relaxed state, your subconscious is much more open to receiving these kinds of messages.
By doing it again and again and again forces it into your subconscious mind, and it will even get into your subconscious without you realising it, laying the foundations for your better life.
So take note of your belief system. Once you understand that you’re surrounded by what you believe, once you accept that, then it’s time to create change in your life.
That’s your next step. Changing your life by repeating the right affirmations at the right time when you are fully relaxed and your subconscious mind is open and receptive.
Go change your life! 😁 ❤️
Together creating your best future,
Scott 😃
“My purpose is to help others persevere throughout life’s journey to understand they are more than good enough so that they are enlightened and determined to make beautiful choices while building a fulfilling life”

Scott Lane – Founder BuildMyLifestyle
Digital Entrepreneur and Lifestyle Coach
SFM Elite+ / DEA Mastermind Experience Member

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